The Dating and Community Site for Gay Men living with HIV

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Plusmen is the dating and community site for gay men living with HIV. It's a place for those who are bored of the meaningless sex sites and want to take control of their life.

Plusmen gives HIV men a safe and attitude free environment to chat with other HIV people, get advice, make friends and maybe even find "the one", all with the confidence of knowing that there will be no "conversation" to be had about your HIV status.

Creating an account is fast, easy and free*

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* Free HIV dating membership requires a code available from your clinic
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To protect the privacy of our members, we don't offer a public free trial. You can get a 6 month free membership by picking up a leaflet from your clinic or hospital.

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Not got a code but still want to join, great! Membership is available from only £2.67 per month.

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Safe and Confidential

We take your privacy seriously. We follow the Data Protection Act 1998 and follow guidelines from the Information Commissioners Office. We do our best to keep your data safe and secure, the site is even tested against hacking attacks.

We also aim to foster an attitude free environment

Forums, Groups and more

Living with HIV is tough enough without having to be getting back on the dating scene at the same time. We designed the site to be more than just HIV dating. We have forums and groups so that you can chat to like minded individuals, ask for advice and get involved with group conversations or events.

Easy and Intuitive

We’ve designed our dating site to be simple to navigate and use. With straight forward profile pages, personal picture albums (just drag and drop) and a simple and instant messaging system. We also have winks and smiles letting you quickly send a hint to someone so they know you like them.

Not For Profit

We aim to provide our HIV dating site for as little as possible and are working with clinics and hospitals to provide free memberships; just pickup a leaflet available from the foyers or reception of participating clinics.

What have you got to lose!